Indeed dear, you are and other people I know from this site are a living proof of that it is possible. Too bad I met a wrong guy here and he decided to quit everything what me and him had.
Awww. That's so sweet! I agree with you!
nope, I gave up looking for it~
theres a success story
Because their calling plan makes it expensive
parisa san should never give up i wont thats for sure sometimes what your really looking for is in your face or in a disguise or just very shy lol
i think its coz of the idea of distrust. i mean, you cant really see what the other person is doing and ppl tend to get worried when the other person doesnt contact them when it was planned. i not into a LDR because i dont like not being able to see the person i am with and coz if i dont see them or hear from them, i dunno what they could be doing.
but shouldnt you have alil trust in them to do the right thing and be with you
Akojio, some people know that they have security issues. Knowing this, you can't be in a relationship with someone that will make you feel insecure. You will always think the worst things every time and if you are always accusing them of doing something that they are not doing, like cheating...they will A: cheat eventually or B: Just leave you because nothing you ever do is going to be good enough for the other person because they have made up their minds about you.
Some are just very needy they NEED to see the other person every other day and long periods of time away from their partners make them feel very lonely. I know you feel like people should give it a chance but if you are like the person that I have described, then a long distance relationship is not for someone like that. No matter how many chances you give it, how you feel about the other person, or how hard you try, that is who you are and a match that like that is doomed to fail. Its nothing personal. Its actually a good thing that people realize that they just cannot handle it. In a way, they are doing the other person a favor by not wasting their time.
You should appreciate that these kinds of people are being honest and in all reality are probably thinking about your feelings.
i say cause they dont trust each other that much
Long distance relationship can cause either party to have a change of heart so it's best to avoid it. That's what I think about it. Saw a lot of this kind of cases.
Even they trust each other, there are still some obstacles that will tear them apart even further, without knowing how well the other person is, without any kind of communication or at least to be able to hear voice ~ That's just too painful to bear it .. Even you can bear it, but can your lover bear it ? Trust is amazing, but it comes with great pains, tears and suffer .. I had tried, but it seem my lover suffers a lot . . and it lead us to break-up . . . Long distance can work with other couple as well, but they need to be strong and well-trusted in each other, if you and your partner understand and can bear the suffering, then long distance relationship could work for you .~
This is from my own opinion, so i'm sorry if i say something wrong here ~
I agree that it takes a lot of courage and trust, but if the other stops loving you and loses interest it shows that maybe strating it wasn't a good idea at all, as true love bears everything.
It's possible and it's not way too different from if a couple would be together in live, next to each other. If you meet someone online with who you fall inlove and think that he or she is for you, then you should atleast try.
If the worst comes, you'll atleast gain experience.
It's hard and takes lots of effort to maintain, especially if either of you have issues with trust, insecure, or just plain needy.
Plus, I think the physical aspect of a relationship is important too. I'm not talking about sex, but just having that person next to you, being able to kiss them, or just hold them in your arms...you just can't have that type of intimacy in a long distance relationship. Unless of course you have the time and money to see each other often.
becuz they are scared of getting hurt and not being able to see where it can lead them
I agree with this. *Nods*
Maybe because of trust XD I dont know. I don't have a boyfriend. (Forever alone, LOL)
I think it's like this... People are scared to go into online relationship. Reasons:
1. They don't know who they're talking to really, they can be talking to some crazy person!
2. They are afraid of getting hurt; Either physically, mentally, or emotionally.
3. It's hard to be patient sometimes with your partner that could be half way across the world ~ You want to be with him or her A LOT.
So this all mainly based on trust and patience, people lack that in an online relationship and so a lot of people just avoid them.
I think if you love someone, you should try everything to keep the relationship lasting. I always say: as long as you love each other, why not being a couple and trying everything? The only reason for a break up in my eyes is that you no longer love each other. It's the same with long distance relationships. Why not trying if you really love the person? Everyone is different and some may cheat on you, but there are probably more people who won't cheat. Just try! you never know if it could work out. Regret the things you have done, but not those you haven't done!! try!!! I know many exemples of long distance relationships who worked out. And even if you break up, then you will still have a nice memory of a person that once loved you!! There is no better memorie then a loving one! And to Akojo13, if you still follow this: keep believing in it! one day you will meet a girl (if you already haven't) who will say yes!