
Really why do alot of people just reject a long distance relationship?
i mean if i give you a date that i will come would you wait for me from a boy to a girl
some boys and girls cheat in a long distance relationship but there are those who are truthful and never get a chance
Because they understand they are generally doomed to fail. Humans are social animals. You are working against that in a long distance relationship
in a way i dont believe that for one we are more than capable of doing that and yea were social but does that give boy/girls the right to cheat on each other i seen many long distance relationships work out but allot of girls/women and men/boy never give a person the time we are animals yes but god give us a brain for a reason and we still misuse it
a lot of effort and trust needed for this. effort compliance a lot of other stuff too~ relationship is a complicated thing, some people just find it tiring and hard to trust the other party.
that is true yes but somtimes at least give the person a chance to prove himself im mean there are allot of guys that are really serious like my self and dont even get a fear chance because of some screw up playing peoples hearts alot of times men want to prove there love to women but they cant well not so easy but they want to
I have seen a lot of long distances relationships work out!
I think that in order for them to work the couples have to truly care for each other and be willing to put in the time and effort to communicate through phone, Skype or things like that
They also have to be very trusting of the other person which is why sometime long distances relationships fail... the couples aren't able to trust each other so then they end up breaking up ![]()
if we are just talking about one individual, that would be fine to give a chance but there isn't just one person in your life~ to make a thing happens required elements to come together to create it. lack of one won't do the effect... so after all, long distance relationship or just a normal relationship, both parties are to be into it to make it works~
Parisa san we aint just talking bout one person i mean alot of people go through alot in a long distance relationship including rejection some may be love others cannot be explained
Without interaction(I mean actually being in the presence of the person), our minds so to say toy with the relation, those who are faithful come to question if the others really feel the same, or due to the distance if they will at one point cheat. Long distance is quite tricky, without a usual routine to meet with the other person be it one day of the week to travel across town, to even other cities and states, the distance between the 2 is like a thin thread. I don't think all long distance relationships are doomed to fail, I just thing most.
Indeed dear, I agree with you. I've experienced it and really did cpome to a question if he felt the same, as for me I'd wait for me and him to meet, but he wasn't that sort of a person abd prolly loved someone else or stopped loving me, so really, as Lunaire said - it takes 2 for it to work. And really it's possible, my cousins are happy as they both met threir halves online. ^ ^
yup agree with monsieur friend4friend completely! its sorta common sense lol after the passion burns we need to be close to each other unless your bond is that strong and you trust them completely...but experiences in life shape us differently some doubt their relationships with others cos of previous fall-outs whilst others wholeheartedly cherish them
'' and lack of physical intimacy and not seeing them is one of the biggest causes of break ups cos you just dont feel that close to them =/ and then doubt appears...and its like what neee chan was getting at haha you need both parties to make it work cos if one is missing then its like trying to fix a leaky boat >< and same rules apply in normal relationships~...so yeah sorta tricky trying to navigate it out but then there are people who manage *coughcoughpassion and his girlfriend XD* LOL ~ but even then he dedicates lots of songs to her on youtube so then yeah =/
to keep it simple...
is all depends on the concerned parties how they build and maintain their relationship, is a package~ regardless is long distance or just beside each other.
is tiring.... even trying to explain or express the views make me tired out~ LOL!
They probably feel that they just need to be close to that person.
dont you think if its really someone you love you will find a way to make it
You know what you are right.
love must be a 2-way. love don't work out if only one sided so to long distance relationship. nothing can beat if both are sincerely love each other ![]()
ive seen people happen and they are still with each other friends and family
Juan kun... that's very nice to know~ no doubt there are lovely people out there ![]()
yes there are you just got to look hard enough
i met my other half from here and we are a couple states away. after months of talking skyping and calls we finally met. and well i never wanted to leave. ha but had to get back to life and we visited every other month for a few months before getting engaged then spent one week a month for next almost 6 months before getting married. it can work just takes patience love and trust. ![]()
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