Ok so I have this friend (girl) who is becoming like my best friend and she has a twin brother is...just amazing. He's hot, sweet, understanding, smart, just everything good. We have hung out once and he kinda flirted a bit. I told my friend that I have a crush on him and she thinks it is cute and that I should go for it. I really want to have a relationship with him and I really do not to mess anything up with him or her. So what are the steps I need to take? Should I just tell him how I feel now? How should I tell him? How do I make sure it becomes a really great relationship?
well, you should get to know the guy better before you date him because guys like that ALWAYS have a dirty secret. just don't treat your friend as a third wheel. spend equal amounts of time with them and don't screw anything up, k?
don't involve her sister much, i mean do what you would have done if he wasn't her brother. just be you
Thank, i guess thats true.. it wouldnt be so hard if they werent twins lol. but ill try to keep it separate. They are really close though
I'm a twin myself and I get how twins are very close although my twin is a girl. If I had a friend that liked my sister I would cheer him on too ,but if he stop being the same with me I would resent it a lil. They have a bond that is close because it's easier to relate with someone the same age that's family and is always their. Yet if you act the same towards your friend but act like the girl trying to get the boy then it should go well. Just remember that both are connected but different people. Anything else ask
OK,i'll remember that tip . Thanks so much for your help!
do not get too close to the sister, it could cause issues in the future... just hang out with him and do what u would normally do when u wanna get with a guy.
Well, I've been friends with her for a while. We are already kind of close. I found out she had a twin way after we got close. It can be hard to not be so close. I tried to tell him, but I don't think he gets it lol
What do you mean he doesn't get it
I had sent him an ecard saying that I have a crush on him or whatever, I know its lame...but I dont think he took it seriously or even cares. I dont know. I guess i should ask?
Yes you need to ask ,I mean most guys can be clueless and the ones that aren't can be super shy and its not that lame to sent an ecard I mean I understand that telling the guy you like, that you like him is scary.
It is scary. I'll have to ask. We are friends and all but I have to be really clear and just tell him. <.< Maybe he feels the same...that would be a miracle.
It takes guts and what if your lucky and he does like you . So yea ask
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Thank You so much for the help and support!!